8 More Things I Wish Guys Knew About Women

Hello all! I enjoyed writing the first part to this so much, I decided to do another one.

When we talk to you about different things or our problems, sometimes we aren't looking for a "fix-it" response. Some times we just want you to listen and to be in the know about what we're dealing with at that time.

Why do we like sparkly things? For the same reason that men like cars. We just do.

We wish that all men could experience the pain and discomfort of periods, cramps and child birth so you all the comments about it being "not that bad" can stop.

"Why do women keep dating and falling for the 'bad boy'?" 

1. Well, think about what make the "bad boy"... bad. He didn't get that reputation because he was self-conscious and unsure of himself. It's because he was confident. Ladies like a man who's confident. Besides, we can ask you all the same thing. Why do you keep dating and falling for women who are flaky, inconsiderate and/or uncaring about you or your relationship?

2. Some women sometime truly don't see what you see or if they do, they don't care.
3. Sometimes, they're getting something out of that relationship that they believe they can't get from anyone else.
4. Sometimes, she's not the person you really think she is.
(Note: Guys, if you're falling hard for a girl that is with a "bad boy", you can warn her; especially if you all are close. However, be prepared for the possibility of having to move on.)

If you get slapped or something thrown at you for drawing a parallel between anger and her period or PMSing... you probably deserve it.

Don't assume that a woman wouldn't know about anything that's considered to be incredibly geeky or nerdy. Give her a chance and wait to see if she tells you whether or not she understands what you're talking about. You may find out that she's interested in learning more.

"Why do women like muscular guys?" For the same reasons some guys like women with well-endowed chests and curvy rear-ends. We just do. Okay, seriously. Some women are attracted to muscular men because on some level, visible physical fitness can be an indicator of health. On another level we think "muscles = strength = more likely to be able to protect the ones he loves from harm". On another note, women have preferences just like men. Don't assume that a woman wouldn't be interested in a guy because he doesn't have Chris Hemsworth's body. Just be you and take care of your body.

Stop saying, "Hey, girl/baby/sweetheart." to us if we aren't in any kind of relationship. Yes, we know it's meant to be flattering but, it's annoying and uncomfortable. It's condescending. If we aren't in any relationship with you, you don't have that freedom to call us that.

Women like guys that like to read. Magazines don't count.

Ladies, are there any other things you wish guys knew about girls? Comment and share.

7 Things I Wish All Guys Knew About Women

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I've often wondered what I would say if I had the opportunity to give a talk to a bunch of guys on women in general.

A quick Google search or look in the self-help section at book stores can give you tons of material to read; some serious, some humorous and satirical. So why am I writing this? Well, besides the fact that I want to, I'm also writing this in hope that there will be something that some guy out there will find helpful. Remember, this isn't an "end all be all". I'm just sharing from my experiences, point of view and my observations.

Dear Guys,

"What do women talk about when they're away from guys?" The answer is any and everything. Many times, it's not about you or any other guy. We talk about everything from what's going on in our lives to what's going on in the news. (FYI: Women can be just as dirty, raunchy, nasty, gory, potty-mouthed or crass in conversation as men can.)

On behalf of all introverted and quiet girls out there, we know you are drawn to the outgoing and extroverted girls; there's no waiting or guess work and less effort. Just know that there are other girls that are that just as interesting... if not more who are not outgoing or extroverted. Please don't assume that just because we're quiet, we won't talk to you or anyone. Just try engaging in conversation with us. So, how can you tell if she's interested in you? Along with the standard prolonged eye contact and smiling whenever you look her way, if she repeatedly goes out of her way to talk to you one-on-one, compliment you or say hi... she probably likes you. So, what do you do if you go talk to her but, she still seems really "quiet"? Be patient. Sometimes, it takes time for us to warm up to someone new. (She may also be silently freaking out because the guy that she really likes is taking notice of her.)

NO MEANS NO. Period. I don't care if that no is, 

"No, I don't want to go to there."

"No, I'm not interested in you."

"No, I don't want to have sex with you". 

I don't care if she adds "sorry" to her no. She gave you her answer, so BACK OFF.

Black women like non-black guys too. Black women like white guys, Asian guys, Latino guys, Middle Eastern guys, Pacific Islander guys, mixed guys, Indian guys, Native American guys as well.

Dancing is attractive. I'm talking about ballroom and latin dancing. Whether you're a novice, an expert or somewhere in between, knowing how or learning how to lead is attractive. It shows confidence and leadership. Plus, it's fun and seeing you having fun dancing makes us happy, too.

You are not less of a man if you don't eat anything that came from an animal. I'm going to admit that I'm a little puzzled at where "real men eat meat" came from. Most women will not look down upon you or think less of you because you don't eat any animal products. In fact it shows that you are compassionate and caring towards all creatures, that you care about the environment, other people and your health.

We wear make up for ourselves, not you. Women wear make up because it's fun to wear and experiment with, we like the way it looks on us and it's a way to add something to our own style.